So your favorite girl is going to be a wedding guest after these years, I am so excited and at the same time worried.
I can explain!
I haven’t attended wedding in a long while so I am worried about my social battery. I am worried it might pack up half way into the wedding and you would find me sitting down in a quiet, not so illuminated corner.
This particular wedding would have people I went to school with in attendance and I am not sure, I want to catch up with everyone( Introvert). I like to know less about what’s going on with people’s life, that way I can sleep well at night.
This same wedding would have Aunties in attendance and dear me, if you are an African lady within marriageable age with no spouse, you would dread ceremonies where you would see the “Aunties”.
The looks and the brazen questions are out of the world. The questions come unprovoked and you dare not be rude with your answers or elude the questions.
While I am excited the wedding is happening during my long deserved holiday, it means I have to look the part while I come up with possible solution for these aforementioned worries of mine.
Without further personal stories, here are the styles I am considering recreating or even modifying. Feel free to share any you would be recreating for the next weeding invitation you get.
For non African audience invited to an African wedding as a guest, finding the perfect outfit can be both thrilling and daunting. But fear not! Whether you’re attending a rustic countryside affair or a glamorous city soirée, we’ve got you covered with all the dos and don’ts of wedding guest fashion.
First,
Respect the Dress Code: Pay close attention to the dress code specified on the wedding invitation. Whether it’s black tie, cocktail attire, or casual chic, dressing according to the dress code shows respect for the couple and the occasion. While at it, never for once think you cam outdress an African bride so feel free to dress like you are going to the gala.Opt for Timeless Elegance:
Choose outfits that are classic and timeless, rather than overly trendy. A well-fitted dress or a tailored suit/ outfit is always a safe bet and ensures you’ll look chic and sophisticated in photos for years to come.
Accessorize Thoughtfully:Elevate your outfit with carefully chosen accessories. A statement necklace, bold clutch, or elegant heels can add a touch of personality and flair to your ensemble without overshadowing the bride or groom.
Consider the Venue and Season:
Take into account the location and season of the wedding when selecting your outfit. Light, breathable fabrics are perfect for summer weddings, while richer textures and jewel tones are ideal for fall and winter affairs. And don’t forget to bring a shawl or jacket for outdoor ceremonies or cooler evenings.
Secondly, Dont:
Wear White: This should go without saying, but it’s worth repeating – avoid wearing white or any shade that could be mistaken for white, such as cream or ivory. Let the bride shine as the center of attention on her special day.
Overdress or Underdress: Strike the right balance between being dressed up and being overdressed. Avoid overly revealing or flashy outfits that may draw attention away from the couple. Similarly, don’t underdress or show up in casual attire unless the dress code specifies otherwise.
Wear Anything Too Casual: While some weddings may have a more relaxed dress code, it’s still important to dress appropriately for the occasion. Avoid jeans, shorts, or anything too casual unless explicitly stated on the invitation.
Ignore Cultural Considerations: Attending a wedding with specific cultural or religious traditions, take the time to familiarize yourself with any dress code guidelines or customs that may influence your outfit choice. Respect and honor the couple’s heritage by dressing accordingly.
Forget to Have Fun: Above all, remember that weddings are joyous celebrations of love and union. Don’t stress too much about finding the perfect outfit – focus on enjoying the festivities, celebrating with the couple, and creating cherished memories with friends and loved ones.
